Friday, June 06, 2008
Fun at the Flowing Frio River. It was Fabulous
Wednesday, June 04, 2008
Ever wanted to go to Rwanda?
This is a blog from the founder of Land of A Thousand Hills Coffee. Tommy and I have been purchasing their coffee for a while now. Their motto is "Drink Coffee, Do Good!" It's a great company and they are definitely on the right track with helping the people of Rwanda learn to earn a living and produce excellent coffee. Jonathon Golden is in Rwanda, so if you've ever wanted to go to Rwanda, now's your chance - in a round about kind of way.
We also purchase coffee from Esparanza Commodity Group. This is really great coffee also with a very different flavor. They grow their coffee in Nicaragua and although they have a slightly different twist on how they are doing good with coffee, they are doing it.
We haven't bought store bought coffee in a long time. Buying coffee from LOTH and Esparanza is more expensive but it's very, very good and we just cut back on something else if we need to. I've spoken personally with both of these companies/groups and they are completely committed to providing excellent coffee and loving the people of Rwanda and Nicaragua.
You can read more about fair trade here if you want. It's kind of interesting and there are many different aspects of it.
Tuesday, June 03, 2008
My New Job
I lounged part of the time in the shade with a cool breeze blowing and part of the time in the sun sipping a cold diet coke. I got in the pool once to cool off and sat some more.
I decided that working on my tan could be my new job. Why do they call it "working" anyway? Oh well... the problems - I don't tan and instead of getting a paycheck, it actually cost me money. That doesn't work out so well.
I think I'll give it a few more tries, though, just to see. So, if you call me and I don't answer, I'm probably at "work".
Monday, June 02, 2008
For the LAST time... really.

Anna and Mrs. Gary - she was a fantastic teacher!
What a cute kid!!!
Anna absolutely loves watermelon. One kid in her class had a plate full of watermelon rines(sp), he probably ate about 15 pieces. I'm sure he had a terrible belly ache that afternoon!
Thursday, May 29, 2008
Landa Park Day Trip
We got to go this past Monday and it was a blast as usual. Tori and Jakeb each took a friend, Peter came with Tori and Kyle came with Jakeb. Anna will most likely get to take a friend the next time we get to go. I was so proud of her for doing everything. This was her first year to be tall enough for the big stuff. She went to the little blue slide in the kiddie area just to try it out and didn't even go on it cause it looked boring. She's growing up!
We left at 8am and got home around 9:30pm. A long day but for as much fun as we have it was worth it.

This is Tori going down the big slide. You have to be able to really hold your breath good to not get water all up in your brain. The girls all plug their noses and that's okay! The guys are too macho for that.

You can't tell but this is Peter.

At Landa Park, even siblings have fun playing together! (sounds like a commercial, huh?)

Kyle - upside down. He did hit the water and not the concrete!

Jakeb in mid flip formation off of the rope swing. The guys were all sore the next day, I think.
Tommy chillin'. No pics of me, I did do stuff but someone had to document the day.
The kids chillin'. Time for a snack.

Peter in mid rotation flying through the air.

Tommy's flippin'! I don't know too many 41 year old men that can do that and with such great form! What a man!! Inevitably he does that on the swing, everyone cheers and the next one or two behind him in line try it and belly or back flop and then it's over. It's funny - what happens, I mean, not Tommy's flip.

Anna jumping off of the rope swing.
Not sure who that is coming down. I think it's Kyle or Peter. You have to look hard to see all the spinning going on.
Jakeb coming down on his belly. He didn't plug his nose!
Anna coming down the slide. I think the slide is still her favorite - the big one, not the lame kiddie one. Good job, Anna!
I'm impressed that you read all the way to the end! This post took me over an hour to do. I sure hope someone appreciates it!
Saturday, May 24, 2008
For the LAST time... #2
Yesterday, Tommy and I had our LAST "Friday date day". He's been off on Friday's so we've usually gone out of town somewhere, usually to different parts of Houston to eat, play and just get away. We're not sure what his new work schedule will look like so we will need to be a little more creative about scheduling our dates.

Yesterday was the LAST big pancake breakfast for this school year. We only have three more 07-08 school breakfast's to go. Here's a pic.
Thursday was Tori's LAST Buccaneer Band concert - Bandorama. Since she's graduating early, she can't fit in the marching season band schedule and get all of her academics in too.
This is the LAST Brazoswood Buccaneer fight song I will most likely get on video. She'll probably play it one more time at graduation but I probably won't video it. Tommy and I went to B'wood too so this was also our fight song. I played it in the Buc band when I was there so it was strangely emotional for me to hear it knowing I wouldn't be connected to it this way again.
This is the LAST time I will get to video Tori playing with the drumline. She plays the oboe in band but gets to play cymbals with the drumline during marching season and for drumline gigs. They played after the concert on Thursday for about 30 minutes (the video's not that long, though). Eric Harper, aka "Harper", is an extremely talented percussion director and has also made that part of Tori's band experience a blast. It's been a fun ride!!
Friday, May 23, 2008
For the LAST time...
Here's a few to start with:
This week is the LAST full week of this school year - Anna’s last full week of school at her elementary school and Tori’s last full year of high school.
My sister turned 39 this week, the LAST of her 30’s, unless she decides to stay 39 forever. I’ve just never seen that work for anyone… She might be able to pull it off, though.
Tommy had his LAST day at his job yesterday. He starts his new job with Mustang Engineering on Tuesday.
We saw our old, beat up, piece of junk, 240K+ miles, '94 Ford Explorer for the LAST time this past Sunday. We wrote "FOR SALE" on the window and within 5 hours or so some guy came and paid cash and took it away. YEAH!!
More to come… I know you’re hanging on the edge of your seat!
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Chapman Family Tragedy
It brings back memories of our own family tragedy with my sister's kids. Recovery is a struggle, even almost 7 years later.
Please pray for Steven Curtis Chapman's family.
Update: Here is a link to a blog set up by the Chapman family called "In Memory of Maria".
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Saturday in Hong Kong
We went to the Saffron Persian Cafe on Hillcroft for lunch and “enjoyed” the music of the Middle East. It was our second time there and we enjoyed it as much if not more than the first time. (We even went back on Sunday evening with some friends for more.) They are probably Iranian but it was just a cool experience and really great food. We really hated we missed the belly dancers on Friday night, though.
After lunch, we went to the Hong Kong Mall. There's a whole area off of Bellaire and the Beltway that is like stepping into Asia. We walked into this mall and definitely felt like we were in their world. It was cool. We were the minority and it just made us feel a vulnerability that we don't have to experience every day in "our" world. Here are some pics that I took even though after taking the first one a oriental lady screamed at me and told me not to. I was just taking a picture of bamboo! Man!!! Maybe it was some kind of secretly grown or spiritual bamboo or something. Who knows…
We went to a bakery and bought two cookies (we threw one out cause it was not good, the other one was okay) Anyway, I asked the clerk what something was and pointed to it and he said some kind of bread but I couldn't understand him. I asked him if it had something inside of it. Well, that just blew his mind and he just told me, "It's nothing". I'm supposing that was his standard answer when he couldn't communicate with these touristy people who come in and don't know anything. It was funny.
There was another store that could best be described as our Candy Craze. It had plastic bins filled with dried anchoves, all types of fish jerky and other jerky meats, fruits, etc. Some of it probably would have been good but the smell in there just made it all not seem appetizing at all. We stayed for a while, though, and looked at everything.
We will definitely be taking our kids there soon. Good times…

The "special" bamboo.

Jack Fruit - they were huge! Look at them compared to the tomotoes and the guy sweeping in the back ground.

Durian Fruit - in the Jack fruit family. This one is very stinky and very expensive! It's the size of a large melon but about 1 quarter of it at one place cost $13! We didn't try it. We'll save that adventure for a
nother day.Fish on a rope!!! How cool is that?

Pho Dung, yum, sounds appetizing, huh? Fake what? We didn't eat there but we got a good chuckle out of the name.

Starbucks anyone? Tommy got tapioca in his green tea creamy thing. It was slimy and disgusting. She had asked me if I wanted tapioca in mine and I asked her why I would. She asked if I wanted to chew my drink. :) I thought that was hilarious. Tommy threw his out and we ended up sharing mine - a slime free passion fruit slushy.

They seem to embrace it all. Christianity, Hindu, Buddha were all represented. These posters were all over with scripture verses written in English and then in Chinese, I guess. This one is of John 3:16.
Friday, May 16, 2008
School was.......
" A man is determined by if he has the power to get the job done." Words of Coach McCormick... Freshman Brazoswood Basketball.
The perfect water bottle search is over!
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For weeks now, I have been searching for the perfect reusable water bottle. I wanted to quit purchasing cases of bottled water and get each of us a bottle that we could refill. I'm not trying to go completely green, maybe just a light shade of green. We try to do what we can to be environmentally conscious without going overboard with the whole idea.
What I've been doing for quite some time now is using one regular plastic water bottle and refilling it throughout the day. I heard recently, though, that these disposable bottles are supposed to be a "one time use" bottle and when reused will leak toxins into your water and into your body. Well, that just bothered me a little. Although it came from a trustworthy source, Julia Roberts on Oprah, I didn't research it and it may not even be true but I was already at the point of not wanting to keep spending the money on those cases of water anyway so this just clinched my decision.
So... my search was on.
Tommy and I saw some at Academy first and we went ahead and bought 5 of them in different colors. They were less than $3 each. I guess this is one of those things that you get what you pay for. You pretty much had to suck out of it like a baby. None of us liked them. I think Tommy was willing to tolerate it but he was willing to unscrew the lid each time he wanted a drink. What a pain!
Then we bought two at Target. One is a Rubbermaid bottle with a yellow pop-out lid so Anna could take it to school. She doesn't drink milk so she takes water every day and since we're not buying bottles she needed something to take. Do you know they won't let her "have" water in a cup? She won't drink the juice or milk so they would actually let her go thirsty for lunch if she didn't take water. Crazy! Anyway, that one works for her but it's not cute! The other one was a higher end, lovely lavender, Eddie Bauer water bottle. It has its issues but it was okay. Still not perfect, though. It was a little too big and not easy enough to drink out of. I want the water to pour into my mouth. I don't think that drinking water should take such effort.
So, Tommy & I were in Starbucks on Tuesday, you can already tell this is going to be good, huh? Starbucks is synonymous with good! They had a water bottle that looked like it might be just what I was searching for. It cost $10 so I really looked long and hard. I decided to give it a go. It meets all of my perfect water bottle requirements. It’s small enough to fit in my purse, it doesn’t leak, it has a real hole for the water spout not a sucker thing, and it looks good!!! Here's a picture.

Monday, May 12, 2008
Jumpin' in the River - Part 2
For the last month we have been praying about and talking through what it would be like for me to take a job that has a chance of sending us to Singapore to live. Andrea and I sat the kids down and told them about it and asked them their opinions about living in a foreign place. They told us their fears and their excitement. Tori talked about the possibility of going to college while we are far away.
The whole process of making the decision to change jobs seemed like it took forever but I think it was good for us all to be able to process our thoughts with each other out loud while we were waiting. I have to say though that waiting stinks.
The first project I am on will keep me close to home. Then the second project will take me to the office in Katy. We will continue to live here and I will commute. There is still a chance that we will not go overseas but if it does happen it will be around the fall of 2009.
There are so many fears and unknowns but we like adventure. We know we are taking some chances by making changes but the fun part of change is the expectation of the potential good that could come. So once again we jump into the river where we do not control the speed or direction of the flow but have high expectations for the things we will see and experience as we float in its current.
BTW - Now you know what the "Uncertainty" post was all about.
I love being a mom!!
Our first Mother's Day when Tori was a baby ended up being a pretty bad day due to unspoken expectations on my part and Tommy just not having any idea what was this day was supposed to be like. We had very different upbringings when it came to holidays and special days. We got over that bad Mother's Day and have had some really good ones over the last 20 years. (Yes, we've been married almost 20 years! I know we don't look that old!)
Yesterday, we went to church and then to Mendoza's for lunch. We've been there before on Sunday's and it's usually super crowded. We pretty much had the place to ourselves. I guess not too many mom's pick Mendoza's for their Mother's Day lunch. Oh well, we've never been accused of being conformists.
I got to lay around and watch tv with Tori for a while, Tommy helped me clean out our bookshelf in our room, yes I enjoyed that, and they gave me some accent pieces to my new dishes that I got for my birthday last year and some really great cards.
I have three awesome kids and I love being their mom!!!
Thursday, May 08, 2008
The state of our kitchen is...
I try to cook a healthy breakfast for my kids most mornings before school so it gets messy in the morning and I head to work, usually without cleaning the kitchen. Then I come home and start fixing dinner, most days, and the state of our kitchen just goes down hill from there. Some of the time, I just don't care because there are way more important things to do than to clean the kitchen. Sorry, Mom, this goes against everything you taught me.
About once a week it gets good and clean but usually it's just "messy but manageable". That's kind of the way our life is most days. We go through seasons in our family life and this one just happens to be mostly "messy but manageable". I have OCD tendancies in the neat freak/organizational area and I would keep my house clean at all costs. But I ask myself daily and sometimes hourly if Jesus showed up at my door, knowing all that's going on in our day, would He care?
Anyway, that's why that sidebar is there. You can pretty much tell where we are in our life by the state of our kitchen. The bittersweet day will come when the kids are grown and they have their own dirty kitchen to clean and mine will stay clean and the sidebar addition will need to be removed. I'm sure if I miss cleaning the kitchen they'll be happy for me to come clean theirs. :)
Update 6/12: I removed the sidebar. Since I'm no longer working outside of the home I figure I should be able to keep it clean so I really have no excuses for it to be dirty. I'm pretty sure I'll be lazy at times, though.
Wednesday, May 07, 2008
The Best Blog Header In The Land!
Monday, May 05, 2008
Jumpin' In The River
Tommy preached this past Sunday at our church. It was a message titled “Wonderfully Made” in a series called “Amazing”.
Anyway… Tommy talked about how sometimes we think God is like a Blackberry or a PDA that we can take out of our pocket whenever we decide we need help or find ourselves in a crisis or we might think of Him as a genie in a bottle where we can rub the bottle and He comes out and says, “I’m here to grant your wish.”
Tommy went on to say, though, that God is not like those things at all. He is more like a river that flows and we are but to jump in and let Him have control of where we go. Novel idea, huh? Kind of like floating down the Guadalupe or Comal River, it just kind of takes you where it flows and you let it (until it’s time to get out and this is where that illustration breaks down.)
On that note, we have “jumped in the river”. Several weeks ago we let God guide us to the decision to home school Anna next year for her 4th grade year. I'm leaving my job at our church in order to do this right so it is a pretty big jump in a potentially deep river. We home schooled Tori and Jakeb for a year, Tori’s 4th and Jakeb’s 2nd. I had a great year with the two of them and I am very much looking forward to having the next year with Anna and having the time to give her focused attention.
Anna is excited too. I think she might be a little disillusioned in thinking that she’s going to get to sleep in and watch tv most of the day and maybe finish school in an hour or so, but she’ll find out that’s not the case pretty quick. I do think she’ll find, though, that learning stuff can be fun and hanging out with her mom all day can too. I’m pretty sure we can arrange some grandma time so I can have some mom time occasionally. Maybe I’ll make that into a field trip. :)
So, just a few more weeks of regular school for her. We’ll take this one year at a time and see where the river takes us next.
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Don’t read ahead!!!!
I was reading My Utmost for His Highest yesterday for April 29th. It is titled “Gracious Uncertainty” and it was very inspirational to me. Tommy and I were going to return some movies so I decided to bring the little book with me and read it to him while he drove to Hastings. I pulled it out, all pumped up to share this incredibly fitting message God had given me because it went so perfectly with his previous post titled “Uncertainty”.
So… here goes… the moment I’ve been waiting for… I’m about to share with Tommy this profound, divinely timed word that God gave to me through today’s devotion that was written so many years ago.
I begin reading and glanced at him all excited about this morsel God has given us for today and with a grin, he tells me that he read that already and that’s where he got the idea for his post in the first place.
I was shocked, horrified and mad! I think I hit him (lightly) and told him, “You can’t read ahead!!! That’s just wrong! The date clearly said April 29th and you used it on April 26th!!!"
Come to find out, he does that often. He says he reads this devotional book in spurts so when he reads it, he reads several days at a time. Oh well… what’s done is done. He read ahead and I think that’s cheating. That’s like cheating God out of what he was going to give you in His timing. That’s like reading the end of the book or jumping to end of the movie. We have to take these things in order and not mess up the intended plan.
I am joking about most of this. If you know me, you know I’m an organizational freak and like to take things in order and Tommy is not. We had a good laugh about this one.
If you have time, go and read My Utmost For His Highest for April 29th. It’s really good for most of our days when we find ourselves in the middle of the uncertainty ahead. I do think it’s okay to go read previous days to catch up on what God wanted us to know but didn’t take the time to read - just don’t read ahead!!
Monday, April 28, 2008
May You...
We talked about living in today last night at our Small Group meeting as opposed to living in the past or living for the future. If we live in only the past or for the future we miss so much of today. Here's a "May you" from Rob Bell, pastor of Mars Hill in Michigan from a video we watched at our Small Group last night. (If this were Tommy, he'd be linking all the stuff that needs to be linked but I'm not Tommy and I guess a much lazier blogger. Oh well... you can "google" it if you want.)
"May you accept the past for what it is. May you celebrate what needs to be celebrated and grieve what needs to be grieved and then, may you receive from God a new spirit, one for here, now, today."
May we start out our week accepting a new spirit and notice all that God has created and entrusted us to care for today.
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Uncertainty
Anyway here are some quotes I found this week:
As soon as we abandon ourselves to God and do the task he has placed closest to us, he begins to fill our lives with surprises. When we become simply a promoter or defender of a certain belief something within us dies. This is not believing God, it is only believing in our belief about him.
- Oswalt Chambers
It is necessary to run risks,
We only properly understand the miracle of life
when we allow the unexpected to happen.
- Paulo Coelho
Update: (Another One)
When the mysteries we believe in
Aren’t dreamed enough to be true
Some side with the leaves
Some side with the seeds
- Wilco, Side With The Seeds
Update 2: (Another one again)
Everybody will ask what became of you
Because your heart was dying fast
And you didn't know what to do
- Death Cab for Cutie, Cath
Friday, April 18, 2008
The Way To Africa
Tori began saving her money about two years ago when she felt called to go to Africa before this trip was even planned. She asked for money for her birthdays and Christmas and has saved other money she has earned as well. About a year after she began saving, this trip to Kenya began to come together. The cost would be around $3000 and then some extra for the other things she’ll need.
One of the coolest things out of all of this is the generosity of people we know. Several generous people have given her money to help her go on this trip. Other things have been very confirming like gifts that she has received that she planned to spend her own money on and didn’t have to so that money could go towards her trip. Thanks to all of you for believing in her and trusting that your resources will not be wasted.
This Sunday, our Student Ministry is hosting a silent auction for 2008 summer foreign mission trips. The money raised will be divided between the students going on the Africa trip and another trip to Bolivia. There are lots of cool items and services being donated to the auction -just another example of generosity. We made a marbles game board with an African theme. I think it turned out pretty cool! We love this game and love making them to share!
Tori’s way to Africa has been undeniably, divinely paved, and for now, the road is crystal clear. I’m fairly positive that this trip and the people of Kenya will change her forever. Pray for this trip and also for the people of Kenya that Tori will be with - that they would be forever changed as well.







